OFW is acronym of Overseas Filipino Workers. They work abroad to sustain the needs of their family and fulfill their dreams of a better life. But what does it really feel like to work abroad? Are they really sad or are they full of happiness?
Leaving your family and loved ones just to work abroad is a bitter feeling that OFWs are resigned to. Because of the lack of employment here in the Philippines, they have no choice but to do it. When they arrive in a foreign country, they automatically feel alone because they don’t know anyone. Their loved ones are not around anymore to lift them up in times of trouble especially when homesickness strikes. They have to endure that kind of feeling. They cannot express their feelings well to those around them because of the language barrier. Even if they can speak English, their ability is not the same as a person who can speak English fluently. How frustrating can that be? Surely, they will miss a lot of things like the voices and faces of their family. They are not be able to see their child grow. They can’t give warm hugs and kisses. Furthermore, how many celebration like birthdays, anniversaries, and graduations would they miss? It hurts to not be able to witness those events. Worst of all. how can they overcome grief if one of the members of their family died? One thing is for certain, they have many sleepless nights with pillows wet from the tears they cry at night.
Despite the sadness and loneliness, somehow there is joy. They feel happy whenever they chat, viber, skype, or see the picture of their family on Facebook. How much more if they are able to talk to with their loved ones once in while? This can ease the burden, sorrow, and loneliness they feel while in a foreign country. In an instant, they forget how stressed they are by a possibly horrible or strict boss. They love sending presents and money to their family. This makes them happy. They are glad that their children now have new gadgets. They are excited about the improvement of their home. In short, all of their sacrifices pay off for the lifestyle of their family back in the Philippines. Somehow, they find new friends who are also their “kababayans” and enjoy the sights and beauty of their new place. They enjoy shopping as well and think what gifts they will bring when they come home. On top of this, they feel good being referred to as a hero because of the sacrifices they have made.
At first it is hard, but with patience and diligence, things will work out well. This is the motivation of an OFW. No dreams are too hard to reach. Keep on believing, keep on pushing, go an extra mile, and carry an extra load with a cheerful heart. Always think of it as an opportunity to give the best to your family rather than feel guilty that you left them. Time will come when you will eventually come home but for the moment think of why you chose to work abroad in the first place. This can help you to stay on the right path and pursue your dream.
